the hitched insider

get all the unfiltered wedding tips, advice and opinions from a pro who’s just about seen it all…

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can a friend marry you in australia?

this is one of the most common questions i get, thanks to the many movies and tv shows depicting someone getting “ordained” in minutes online and being able to marry their friends that same day.

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what is a ‘legals only’ marriage ceremony?

a legals-only marriage is exactly what it sounds like. it covers the legal requirements to get married in australia, without a fully personalised ceremony. simple. practical, still legally important.

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the toasty truth about summer weddings

if you’re planning an outdoor ceremony, you’re not just planning a wedding, you’re negotiating with the elements, and mother nature doesn’t play by our rules…

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why wedding websites are necessary, not just nice

couples who have a wedding website are less stressed, more organised and not dealing with answering the same 1000 questions over and over again. send beautiful invites if you want, but have the website regardless.

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decoding wedding dress codes

wedding dress codes are one of the most confusing parts of attending (or planning) a wedding. so let’s break it down properly and remove the guesswork.

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do you really need a wedding party?

more couples are choosing to skip having an “i do crew’ altogether, and it’s not because they don’t love their people. it’s because they want a simpler, more relaxed day.

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wedding ceremony ideas that aren’t cringe

a great ceremony can be warm, funny, emotional and completely you without making anyone’s organs shrivel from second-hand embarrassment, so read on for some wedding ceremony ideas that don’t feel cringe…

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next level wedding ceremony tips

i’ve seen hundreds of weddings, and i’ve seen hundred of couples experience pressure from obligation, and worst of all, regret. not because they did something ‘wrong’, but because the didn’t do what was right for them.

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do you need a wedding rehearsal?

most weddings aren’t full theatrical performances with a 32-second window for the flower girl to enter, and dad needing to remember to walk on beat 3.

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the ultimate guide to wedding receptions

your ceremony sets the tone… but your reception is where the party lives or dies. with proper forethought and planning, we can avoid things getting derailed and make sure your wedding goes down as the ‘best night ever’.

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